generator seed fix for DDP mAP drop (#9545)

* Try to fix DDP mAP drop by setting generator's seed to RANK

* Fix default activation bug

* Update dataloaders.py

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* Update dataloaders.py

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models/yolo.py

@@ -301,7 +301,7 @@ def parse_model(d, ch):  # model_dict, input_channels(3)
     LOGGER.info(f"\n{'':>3}{'from':>18}{'n':>3}{'params':>10}  {'module':<40}{'arguments':<30}")
     anchors, nc, gd, gw, act = d['anchors'], d['nc'], d['depth_multiple'], d['width_multiple'], d.get('activation')
     if act:
-        Conv.act = eval(act)  # redefine default activation, i.e. Conv.act = nn.SiLU()
+        Conv.default_act = eval(act)  # redefine default activation, i.e. Conv.default_act = nn.SiLU()
         LOGGER.info(f"{colorstr('activation:')} {act}")  # print
     na = (len(anchors[0]) // 2) if isinstance(anchors, list) else anchors  # number of anchors
     no = na * (nc + 5)  # number of outputs = anchors * (classes + 5)